Your Mrs. Communication

this animaid cafe drama is so stupid. I'm going to raise a storm of anger if this breaks us up. >/

I feel like if I knew all the info it could easily be solved. Nieve me believes that if they just TALK then all can be solved. Disagreements are one thing but this isn't even that. it's just miscommunication. Now, THAT is probably my biggest pet peeve. I hate it when people can't talk to each other. when they don't understand each other when the truth is sitting right before them. It's the #1 killer of Marrages you know.

So talk to them. Don't complain to me and say you'll give up. Tell them how you feel and It will work out. If you don't know how you feel, then say you don't know how you feel.

I'm bad I know. Not because I misscommunicate. No. I usually communicate exactly what I want to say- weither it's exactly how I feel or not is another matter. (Remember that control issue I was talking about? it comes into play here but it's not the point.)

If I had a husband today, I'd make him dinner and talk to him about his day. I'd sit with him on my couch and hold his hand. I'd let my face rest against his neck so he can't see I'm not really watching the movie but instead I'm feeling the heat from his skin and the rub on his thumb on my back. and he'd probably tell me that he loved me and I look so cute when I try to cook and fail. At which point I'll smack him and get up to grab a bag of Mother's cookies to wash down the weird aftertaste. It's all we can afford right now but that's OK, he loves me anyway.

ha. yeaaaaaaah.....